Show us who you are
Respond to images from your own point of view. There are no right or wrong answers.
Sign inDating built around a visual-choice test
Dating where chemistry matters.
Attraction is not a checklist. Chemistry is not random.
MyDestiny uses a visual-choice test informed by years of interdisciplinary work across neurobiology, evolutionary theory, and psychodynamic psychology to explore five key dimensions of romantic chemistry—so you can look beyond profiles and meet someone who may genuinely fit you.
Your chemistry map
Fewer profiles. Better connections.
Core values
How you show up as a couple
Responses to real-life situations
Mutual support
Relationship harmony
Your detailed result is based on both your own and your desired partner profile.
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How it works
We understand first. Then we match.
Show us who you are looking for
Explore the same visual world again, this time through the lens of your ideal partner.
Let the two maps meet
We make mutual fit easier to understand across five relationship dimensions.
Five dimensions of romantic chemistry
We do not ask whether you like the same playlist.
MyDestiny turns five key dimensions of romantic chemistry into a clear relationship map. It compares both visual-choice test results mutually, revealing more than similarity alone: it shows how two people may tune in to one another.
Select a dimension for a brief explanation.
01Core values
How closely your core principles about what matters, boundaries, and the future align.
02How you show up as a couple
How naturally you can present yourselves as a team and stand by one another in front of family, friends, and the wider world.
03Responses to real-life situations
How you respond to change, conflict, and decisions—similarly, or in ways that complement each other.
04Mutual support
How readily you can stand by each other emotionally and in everyday life when one of you needs support.
05Relationship harmony
How well your needs for closeness, independence, and the everyday rhythm of a relationship fit together.
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The science
Attraction follows patterns we can begin to recognize.
Partner choice emerges from the interplay of physical impressions, personality, values, lifestyle, relationship experiences, and fast, partly automatic responses. MyDestiny helps bring recurring visual-choice patterns into view—especially those that can be difficult to put into words.
Similarity and harmony
Large bodies of research show that partners tend to resemble one another across many characteristics. Known as homogamy, this pattern can appear in values, lifestyle, interests, aspects of personality, and certain physical traits.
Early relationship templates
Early relationships with caregivers help form emotional and memory-based templates. Some studies suggest that these templates can later influence which qualities feel familiar, safe, or attractive. The precise role of imprinting-like processes in human partner choice remains an active area of research.
Inherited and learned influences
Many physical and psychological traits have heritable components, while development is continually shaped by environment and experience. Contemporary science understands partner choice through the interaction of biological, psychological, and social influences.
What does MyDestiny reveal?
A relationship map drawn from two points of view.
Two complete visual-choice sessions—Your Own Choices and Your Ideal Partner’s Mirror—organize your responses across five relationship dimensions. The result offers a personal map for reflecting on recurring preferences and mutual fit, completed by the experience of two people meeting in real life.
Selected scientific sources
Partner similarity: systematic reviews and meta-analyses, Nature Human Behaviour (2023)Partner choice, shared environment, and convergence, Nature Human Behaviour (2023)Facial similarity among spouses, Scientific Reports (2020)Bereczkei, Gyuris & Weisfeld: Sexual imprinting in human mate choice (2004)The coevolution of choosiness and cooperation, Nature (2008)
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Press and radio
The MyDestiny story in the media.
MyDestiny interview on MANNA FM
Radio interview with Zoltán Jónás
Dating with Chemistry, Sparks, and Butterflies
Index introduces MyDestiny’s visual-choice approach and the five relationship dimensions the test compares when exploring romantic chemistry.
Open articleCan Chemistry Between Two People Be Measured?
Bors covers the launch of MyDestiny and the five relationship dimensions explored by its visual-choice test.
Open articleIs Tinder Over? A Dating Service Built on a Different Approach
Coloré looks at how MyDestiny’s visual-choice approach differs from the filters used by conventional dating platforms.
Open articleA New Dating Service Explores Chemistry Between Two People
ProfitLine introduces MyDestiny’s launch, its visual-choice test, and the five relationship dimensions it compares.
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Do not let a profile decide for you.
MyDestiny makes romantic chemistry easier to see, so your next connection can be more than just another profile.
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